Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Boy needs father

Sometimes it happens that people leave each other and sometimes it happens that people die. Things happen in this life and everything is possible, though it is important to care about your reaction for these events. It often happens that women are left with kids and they have to bring them up and to care about them. There is nothing terrible in it and it is a common case today, though things are a bit different when it is about mother and son. Boy need a father next to him, a boy needs an example to follow and there is no way for mother to be that example. In case she will then her boy will turn into woman and it is wrong to bring children up this way. I guess father is of vitally importance for boys and there is no way for them to be in a lack of male attention and bringing up. In case there is no father for a boy this attention and bringing up may be replaced with an attention of any male relative, who can show a boy the right way, the way man do and way man never do. Boys really need men in their lives, they need someone who are just like them and so can be trusted.

Mom and daughter

There is a mom and there is a father and they are parents for their kids, they are parents for their daughter and they love each other and care about and after each other. Though, father is more like a protection for his little girl and mom is a person that supposes to know everything about her kid. Mom is the best and the dearest friend and mom always care about here kid is okay and there is nothing that kills her baby. Relationships of mothers and daughters are usually relationships of the dearest and the frankest people in the world. Though, indeed it rare happens that mom is the best and the dearest friend for her daughter. In most cases daughters fell they are overprotected and they need more space in their lives. And moms recognize such a behavior as a behavior of an egoistic one and they take such behavior as an offence. They always think they know better what should be done and they make their daughters act the way they told them to act. I guess they have to be lighter in their protection and their desire to help in case they really want to be friends but not supervisors for their kids.